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Settings and privacy

Updated 2026-10-08

Open Me → Settings.

Privacy

  • Show my distance, Show when I'm active, Browse privately.
  • Let others save my photos, and Show my other photos after a few messages.
  • Pause my profile: take a break; your matches and chats stay.

Chats and notifications

  • Read receipts, Icebreakers, Game invites, and who hears your voice intro.
  • Choose which notifications you get, set Quiet hours, or get one Daily summary in the evening.

Language and look

Language, Theme (light, dark or your phone's setting), units (cm·km or ft·mi), the app's colour, Data saver and video autoplay.

Your account

On Me:

  • Account and security: change your password, add a passkey, and turn on App lock (fingerprint, face or PIN when the app opens).
  • My data & privacy: download a copy of your data or delete your account.
  • Account status: any warnings or limits on your account, and how to appeal.

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